Rise & Grind
We’ve all heard the phrase “toxic mindset,” but let’s dig deeper, what if we called it what it really is… Kleshas, mental poisons that quietly seep into our thoughts and actions, holding us back from living our best lives. Think of them as the original blueprint for what we now call toxic habits, behaviors, and beliefs.
Toxicity shows up in many ways, self-doubt, resentment, overthinking, or the inability to let go of something that’s clearly not serving us. These mental poisons cloud our judgment, distort reality, and fuel cycles of fear, anger, and craving. But here’s the kicker, we often don’t notice them until they’ve already taken root.
Why Kleshas Are the OG Toxic Traits?
• Avidya (Ignorance): The root of all toxicity. When we misunderstand reality, we make choices based on illusion. Toxic? 100%.
• Raga (Attachment): Clinging to a relationship or habit we’ve outgrown is like drinking spoiled milk because we paid for it. That attachment? Poison.
• Dvesha (Aversion): Avoiding challenges because they make us uncomfortable? That’s toxicity wearing a cloak of “self-preservation.”
• Asmita (Ego): The ego thrives on being right, even if it’s at the expense of connection and peace. Toxic drama, anyone?
• Abhinivesha (Fear of Death): Fear of change keeps us stuck in situations that are slowly eroding our happiness. Toxic stagnation at its finest.
How Kleshas Show Up as Toxicity in Real Life
• Toxic Work Culture: Avidya leads to unrealistic expectations and ego battles. Instead of collaboration, we get burnout and resentment.
• Unhealthy Relationships: Raga keeps us tethered to people who drain us, while Dvesha prevents us from addressing real issues.
• Negative Self-Talk: Asmita fuels the inner critic, making every misstep feel like the end of the world.
• Fear of Growth: Abhinivesha holds us back, telling us it’s safer to stay small than to risk failure.
The Antidote: Detoxing from Kleshas. Here’s the truth, anything toxic can be cleansed, including mental poisons.
• Recognize the Poison: Awareness is step one. Are we stuck in a loop of attachment, avoidance, or fear?
• Apply Mindful Practices: Wu Wei (effortless action) reminds us to flow with life rather than fight it. Heart coherence centers us when emotions run wild.
• Lean on Wisdom: Remember The Four Agreements. Be impeccable with our word to break cycles of negative self-talk. Don’t take things personally to avoid unnecessary drama.
• Embrace the Light Within: At our core, we’re not these poisons. Through mindfulness and reflection, we can let go of what’s toxic and reconnect with our truest selves.
Toxicity thrives in silence and shadows. Shine a light on the mental poisons in our life and ask, What can we release today? By doing the work to detox our minds, we create space for clarity, balance, and joy.
Let’s break free from the smoke and embrace the light, because we deserve better.